Friday, May 7, 2010

Becoming Your Own Person

Becoming your own person is quite a task in this world. It's inevitable to NOT be labeled as ghetto or a nerd or a skateboarder. Yeah, you may enjoy skateboarding but that doesn't define you as a person, right?


Is there a such thing as "normal"? It maybe a word in the dictionary in order to define maybe a certain level of blood sugar or cell count but as a person? No, it's not fair to us. We are all different. There is no exact replica of us in this world. And that's the beauty of it all. So we must embrace each others flaws and characteristics and be open to new things. It's called being open-minded people. Believe me, it's a guarantee of a carefree life.


If you like something that others may find "weird" then that doesn't make you not normal, it just proves that your perspective of things is different from others, as are theirs. Some people may find you interesting and want to learn more about you while others may frown upon it and tease and taunt you. But, who cares? They're losing out on making a great friend for life out of there dozens of "fake" friends who are afraid to be themselves around them because of what they might think. Having loyal friends who love you for who you are are the ones who stick around for a lifetime.


But remember that it's okay if you don't like the same things as someone else. Just remember to respect it no matter what because there is nothing wrong with what they like, it all comes down to preference, it just might not be yours.


And the most important thing of all is you have to learn to TRUST yourself and LOVE yourself. Own your uniqueness, own your individuality and embrace. Stay true to yourself because in the end it only matters what makes YOU happy, not anybody else. When you stand by this rule, you attract the best people for you like your potential husband or wife.


This is the most important theory to live by in life and I hope you all read this blog thoroughly and really take it to heart :) You all deserve the best and the best thing to do is to stay happy, and healthy of course.

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